First, I didn't read the other post, I just read the first post. I'll just tell my view point about this matter. And I'm not good at English.
So, I didn't play VN for H-Scenes, I play because of the story and I just think of it as bonus. Sometimes, I like the scenes but sometimes it feels awkward. I already played 6 VNs with H-Scenes and I really didn't read some from the scenes and just skip until their done. But that moment is just how to show their love but not needed in my opinion. I played a game without that scenes and I really like that VN because of the story and it moved me. That's all.