the H scenes brings attention to people (thats how i find good VNs lol)
however, H scenes doesnt determin taht the VN is good
in my opinion when i read Tomoyo After
DAT SHET was sad! the best part where the H scenes, due to the humor / scenes that they show in the VN
i thought it would be a happy VN but it isnt! and i got attracted thanks to the H scene
another VN that i read and liked was Kanon
sure it has some H scenes nothing too extreme
but i feel the connection with the chracter was even better due to the H scene (and seeing them naked is a plus)
so it really depends how the VN is turned out
i think a good VN with H scenes makes it better , but tahst just me