god yeah, i usually plow through a 400 page book in about 2 days@normal pace and humbly consider myself a rather quick reader. but for VNs it usually takes an inexplicably long time for me to finish.
to name a few, narcissu took me like what, 5-6 hours lol? true remembrance 6-7 hours or something, katawa shoujo ~40 hours and little busters original like ~80 hours, making it effectively the longest game i've ever played...
i really like VNs, but ur definitely right, they just take such a huge chunk of free time and emotional investment, so i'm gonna lay low for a while...