Ouraibaa Hjyuraa Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Am I the only one here who isn't either a M or S? Quote
Jun Inoue Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Am I the only one here who isn't either a M or S? Well, it's just that everyone is either M or S, but not in such extreme ways. Most people are either slightly M, or slightly S, so very little that it doesn't really affect sexual preferences in any major way. Â But since we are in the land of anime and VNs, that means extremism, white or black, only 2 sides, no gray. Quote
Kawakami_Complex Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I'm all evil cuz I got trolled at work today. Very bad Jun. xD Don't take out your work trolling on my pure and innocent heart ;D Â Â Am I the only one here who isn't either a M or S? Â I personally think a bit of both is always a good thing! Submissive women can be incredibly hot as can dominant ones. I feel it's all situational and depends on different variables. But as Jun says there is no gray area in extremism Of course being in the gray area isn't bad either, you don't have to be completely M or completely S! Â Quote
Ouraibaa Hjyuraa Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I personally think a bit of both is always a good thing! Submissive women can be incredibly hot as can dominant ones. I feel it's all situational and depends on different variables. Isn't M and submissive two different things? An M wants to get beaten down, while a submissive person just wants the other to lead. Quote
Kawakami_Complex Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Isn't M and submissive two different things? An M wants to get beaten down, while a submissive person just wants the other to lead. True, I guess they kind of mix into one every so often. xD My bad, It's a bit of a pain to type it out on my phone keyboard! Quote
Ouraibaa Hjyuraa Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 True, I guess they kind of mix into one every so often. xD My bad, It's a bit of a pain to type it out on my phone keyboard! I know that feel, soul-bro. This thread usually gets active in 30 minutes or so, and I have to leave in 36 minutes, so I have to continue from phone. >.< Â Also, which game is your avatar from? I swear, even the artist can't draw sex scene, those faces are just... UNGH. Quote
Kawakami_Complex Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I've still got about 3 hours of work left, so i'll be on my phone till then soul-bro! Hopefully will be a bit more active when I get back home! :C Quote
tankhedgehog Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Well, it's just that everyone is either M or S, but not in such extreme ways. Most people are either slightly M, or slightly S, so very little that it doesn't really affect sexual preferences in any major way. Â But since we are in the land of anime and VNs, that means extremism, white or black, only 2 sides, no gray. I'm surprised no one else posted this, but: Â and with that, I take my leave. Goodnight, everyone Quote
Jun Inoue Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I would say that submissive is a kind of M. As I pointed out, when someone says M or S, we automatically thing of the typical, more extreme sorts of S and M. Quote
Ouraibaa Hjyuraa Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 But since we are in the land of anime and VNs, that means extremism, white or black, only 2 sides, no gray. Like neotare vs vanilia. (Neotare all the way, btw.) Â I've still got about 3 hours of work left, so i'll be on my phone till then soul-bro! Hopefully will be a bit more active when I get back home! :C Lol, I don't have internet at home during weekdays, so I have to be on the phone until tomorrow before I can post from a PC. It's been like this since 2012 Christmas. You have no idea of my pain. Quote
Ouraibaa Hjyuraa Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I would say that submissive is a kind of M. As I pointed out, when someone says M or S, we automatically thing of the typical, more extreme sorts of S and M. A M is someone who deprives pleasure from being "beneath" someone. That is different from someone who simply don't want to deal with being in the lead. Quote
Kawakami_Complex Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Â Â Lol, I don't have internet at home during weekdays, so I have to be on the phone until tomorrow before I can post from a PC. It's been like this since 2012 Christmas. You have no idea of my pain. Â Seriously? D: How has that come about? That must be incredibly frustrating jeeeez. Quote
Jun Inoue Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 A M is someone who deprives pleasure from being "beneath" someone. That is different from someone who simply don't want to deal with being in the lead. Then it's not being submisive, it's being lazy. Being submisive implies being beneath the other person, the leader, that leads. Quote
Ouraibaa Hjyuraa Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Then it's not being submisive, it's being lazy. Being submisive implies being beneath the other person, the leader, that leads. You can take joy in not having to do the hard work. Quote
Seath Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Like neotare vs vanilia. (Neotare all the way, btw.) I just have too possessive of a personality to like neotare even when it doesn't personally involve me. -_- Quote
Ouraibaa Hjyuraa Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Â Seriously? D: How has that come about? That must be incredibly frustrating jeeeez. Eh, I got into an argument with my parents. I kept sleeping at school after staying up late, so they obviously blamed my internet (Despite the fact that I had several things on my PC I could still pass time with, even without internet.) They haven't budged an inch on the decision since. Thankfully, though, I'll be moving out after summer vacation, so I'll get my daily internet back. Â Â Also, I'mma take a wild guess and say that your favourite band starts with S and ends on "ton". Quote
greenshadow622 Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 What the fuck did you guys make me read when I just woke up. O.o Quote
Ouraibaa Hjyuraa Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I just have too possessive a personality to like neotare even when it doesn't personally involve me. -_- Well, I honestly don't like the stealing away aspect of neotare. I just like it because there's often mindbreak and ahego. (And, of course, anal.) Â Â What the fuck did you guys make me read when I just woke up. O.o The good stuff, duh. Quote
Kawakami_Complex Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Eh, I got into an argument with my parents. I kept sleeping at school after staying up late, so they obviously blamed my internet (Despite the fact that I had several things on my PC I could still pass time with, even without internet.) They haven't budged an inch on the decision since. Thankfully, though, I'll be moving out after summer vacation, so I'll get my daily internet back. Â Â Also, I'mma take a wild guess and say that your favourite band starts with S and ends on "ton". You are indeed correct! One of many favourites I have! xD You into them aswell? Wow man since 2012? That's some hardcore parenting, not even an inch, must be damn tough. Yeah I hope to be out of my parents house by early next year sometime too, gets a bit suffocating. xD Quote
greenshadow622 Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Well, I honestly don't like the stealing away aspect of neotare. I just like it because there's often mindbreak and ahego. (And, of course, anal.) Â Â Â The good stuff, duh. Good stuff indeed. Â I'm gonna add that I prefer vanilla, and I count myself as neither an M nor an S. Quote
Ouraibaa Hjyuraa Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 You are indeed correct! One of many favourites I have! xD You into them aswell? My soul-brother!!! Lol, but yeah, I can't wait for their new album. It's coming out in 3 days! Â Â Yeah I hope to be out of my parents house by early next year sometime too, gets a bit suffocating. xD Â Very suffocating. Quote
Kawakami_Complex Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 My soul-brother!!! Lol, but yeah, I can't wait for their new album. It's coming out in 3 days! Â Â Â Very suffocating. SOUL-BROTHER! Hell yeah, really excited for it to be released. Heard it on Spotify yesterday when they streamed it, my ears had orgasms. ~(=_=)~ Good luck on your move man, I feel ya. Quote
Ouraibaa Hjyuraa Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Hell yeah, really excited for it to be released. Heard it on Spotify yesterday when they streamed it, my ears had orgasms. ~(=_=)~Â Got to be honest, I've heard 3 of their new songs, and only one struck me as above their average. Coat of Arms and The Art of War are my favourite albums, and none of those new songs I've heard so far tops some of those songs. At least, not for me. Quote
Lucky Bucket Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Good stuff indeed.  I'm gonna add that I prefer vanilla, and I count myself as neither an M nor an S. I don't mind  vanilla, I'm okay with most things as long as it isn't rape, though I'm not a big Fan of NTR myself.. Also if anything I'm an S  Edit: Thanks Jun for pointing it out Quote
greenshadow622 Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 I don't mind  vanilla, I'm okay with most things as long as it isn't rape, though I'm not a big van of NTR myself.. Also if anything I'm an S Basically exactly this. Except the S part. If anything, I'm more submissive, but not by much. And I'm definitely not maso. :/ Quote
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