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I am going through a personal and ideological breakdown

 

I'm pretty sure I am an idiot in some respect, turning away all the love people feel for me in earnest, my grades (I was a straight A student until last year) have plummeted and I cannot accept that, yet every day when I return from school I just kill time, I just told my muslim mom (an understanding and civilized person) that I might be an atheist, and just wanted her to accept that if it happens. Meanwhile, my hardcore Muslim grandma was a few meters away (though she either didn't hear or had the tact to not interrupt)

 

tow of my worst subjects have an exam tomorrow (german and turkish literature) and fuck it, I'm gonna screw it up anyway, why bother, fuck this shit I give up for today

 

...oh fuck me

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In statistics class today, I sat alone in the back until the moment two girls came in late. One of them sat down at the pc next to me and she was fumbling with the statistics program (SPSS if any of you are familiar with it) so I decided to give her a hand. We ended up doing the exercises together and laughing at the stupid mistakes both of us kept making. It's been a long time since I had this much fun in class. I might start going more often so I can see her again  :yumiko: Oh yeah, she was also super cute and had a heartwarming smile (she kept smiling the whole time, it made my heart flutter a bit).

 

The kicker: In the end, she never told me her name so I think she's not really interested in me though...

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In statistics class today, I sat alone in the back when two girls came in late. One of them sat down at the pc next to me and she was fumbling with the statistics program (SPSS if any of you are familiar with it) so I decided to give her a hand. We ended up doing the exercises together and laughing at the stupid mistakes both of us kept making. It's been a long time since I had this much fun in class. I might start going more often so I can see her again  :yumiko: Oh yeah, she was also super cute and had a heartwarming smile (she kept smiling all the time, it made my heart flutter a bit).

 

The kicker: In the end, she never told me her name so I think she's not really interested in me...

Did you tell her your name? You should have gotten hers naturally from the same line of conversation~

 

Keep trying~ don't just give up after one try! Generate the interest if you have to!

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I was almost in several fights in my junior year of highschool, all with the same guy, for the exact same reason (he was mocking one of my friends) and every time we had the exact same mediator.

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Did you tell her your name? You should have gotten hers naturally from the same line of conversation~

 

Keep trying~ don't just give up after one try! Generate the interest if you have to!

 

I did not. I didn't even consider the fact that she might have been interested in me until she had said goodbye and left the classroom (she said she had to go somewhere, idk why she felt the need to tell me but I guess this is a flag?) I'm really bad at this  :(

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it made my heart flutter a bit

You called? Confession: I'm probably never going to get tired of making that joke

 

Confession: The only reason why I sometimes listen to classical music is because of anime. Kanon and Pachelbel's Canon, and Shinsekai Yori and Dvorak's New World Symphony.

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I did not. I didn't even consider the fact that she might have been interested in me until she had said goodbye and left the classroom (she said she had to go somewhere, idk why she felt the need to tell me but I guess this is a flag?) I'm really bad at this  :(

Can't be any worse than me.  If any girls were ever attracted to me, I never noticed.

 

Be careful, in case it isn't a flag.

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I did not. I didn't even consider the fact that she might have been interested in me until she had said goodbye and left the classroom (she said she had to go somewhere, idk why she felt the need to tell me but I guess this is a flag?) I'm really bad at this  :(

I'd be a hypocrite for saying this but don't try to read too much into every little thing. I also think too much like that. The crash from misreading a false-flag and building up from it is quite bad. There was one I experienced that took me a week to recover. Not analyzing too much would help you both ways for not getting disappointed; but also for being happier if there happens to be a real flag there.

 

As far as interactions go I think as with most girls, you'd have to initiate the line of conversation. After that, all you can do at that point is to wait for her responses and gauge how to go on from there. So the fact that she didn't tell your name when you didn't tell yours first, is what I expected, given the situation. Imo it's hard to find girls that initiate a line of conversation if you guys are practically strangers.

 

But take my words with a grain of salt. I'm quite inexperienced on this field as well...

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I'd be a hypocrite for saying this but don't try to read too much into every little thing. I also think too much like that. The crash from misreading a false-flag and building up from it is quite bad. There was one I experienced that took me a week to recover. Not analyzing too much would help you both ways for not getting disappointed; but also for being happier if there happens to be a real flag there.

 

As far as interactions go I think as with most girls, you'd have to initiate the line of conversation. After that, all you can do at that point is to wait for her responses and gauge how to go on from there. So the fact that she didn't tell your name when you didn't tell yours first, is what I expected, given the situation. Imo it's hard to find girls that initiate a line of conversation if you guys are practically strangers.

 

But take my words with a grain of salt. I'm quite inexperienced on this field as well...

 

Hehe I know that feel bro... I don't know, she was joking around and saying silly stuff like we had been friends for a long time so it was a pretty weird experience for me  :michiru:. It's not like I made a lot of effort to talk to her in the first place, she just ended up being a really sociable person I guess?

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Hehe I know that feel bro... I don't know, she was joking around and saying silly stuff like we had been friends for a long time so it was a pretty weird experience for me  :michiru:. It's not like I made a lot of effort to talk to her in the first place, she just ended up being a really sociable person I guess?

In my opinion, I feel that you should just get to know her more and talk regularly with her.(Unless you already do)

Getting hopes up due to one thing and having them crash is always a disappointment. 

Just get closer to her for a while but not too close so that she starts to see you as a friend.

Friendly acquaintance/distant friend is best to start off with.

If she is interested in you, obviously you show mutual interest and get closer together(Thats if you like her also)

So TL:DR, I advise you to get closer to her and while not thinking if she likes you or not. Act as a slightly flirtatious guy  

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I am going through a personal and ideological breakdown

 

I'm pretty sure I am an idiot in some respect, turning away all the love people feel for me in earnest, my grades (I was a straight A student until last year) have plummeted and I cannot accept that, yet every day when I return from school I just kill time, I just told my muslim mom (an understanding and civilized person) that I might be an atheist, and just wanted her to accept that if it happens. Meanwhile, my hardcore Muslim grandma was a few meters away (though she either didn't hear or had the tact to not interrupt)

 

tow of my worst subjects have an exam tomorrow (german and turkish literature) and fuck it, I'm gonna screw it up anyway, why bother, fuck this shit I give up for today

 

...oh fuck me

 

I don't know what to reply to this, so I'm just gonna say that if you know you're gonna fucking screw it up, then do something to not screw it up. At least, that's how I see solving screw-ups.

 

Confession (and this is probably my biggest confession so far): I prefer to pee sitting down.

Confession. I am the same and have been my whole life.

 

D-Don't worry, I won't judge you.

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Confession. I am the same and have been my whole life.

 

Confession (and this is probably my biggest confession so far): I prefer to pee sitting down.

Its just easier, of course it is also not possible everytime but...

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