Fuwanovel Confessions

[Tyrael]

You sure as hell aren't -.- You even have photos with girls

 

You don't need to be good looking to get acquainted to girls..

[Flutterz]

You don't need to be good looking to get acquainted to girls..

Just acquainted? Sure. Acquainted well enough to go to a restaurant and take pictures with them? Not so sure.

 

Confession: I'm tired as shit after my first day of work washing cars. >.>

[Tyrael]

Just acquainted? Sure. Acquainted well enough to go to a restaurant and take pictures with them? Not so sure.

 

Confession: I'm tired as shit after my first day of work washing cars. >.>

 

Sure, they're 'friends'

 

I can't date any of them anyways so it's kind of a waste of time

 

Confession: I feel horrible thinking that way about girls but it's true

[rainsismyfav]

Sure, they're 'friends'

 

I can't date any of them anyways so it's kind of a waste of time

 

Confession: I feel horrible thinking that way about girls but it's true

 

I think I feel the same way... It's horrible but I think I apply the concept in general though, even with guy friends. I have such limited time that I feel like I can't "waste" time on a relationship that's just going to stop at the friendship level (no potential of going more). If I was still in high school or college, and had all that free time then yea I would make female friends. I spend so little time with my friends... I feel more comfortable on my own most of the time. Lol i'm such an introvert.

 

 

What did she say?

 

Secret. She did say "It's fine if we just stay online friends", at one point.

 

lol I'm deliberately holding back information just to make this post more interesting. hehehe...

[Abyssal Monkey]

Confession: I decided to just lay in bed for 12 hour today in the half conscious state before you fall asleep, you know, the hallucinatory one?  Well, I dreampt that my brother never left his room and it became a jungle, with the door covered in spider webs, and grass coming out from below the door.  The last thing I remember before waking up is having a conch animal run around my front yard catch and kill a bunny before bringing it to me.

 

Dreams are fun. They are like life's natural drugs.  Remember kids, I don't always hallucinate, but when I do, I do it naturally.  That way your surrounding will never know any better than you are just being a lazy ass.

[TexasDice]

You guys are too careless. What happens if someone saves these pictures and does horrible things with them?

[Cyrillej1]

Sure, they're 'friends'

 

I can't date any of them anyways so it's kind of a waste of time

 

Confession: I feel horrible thinking that way about girls but it's true

I think I feel the same way... It's horrible but I think I apply the concept in general though, even with guy friends. I have such limited time that I feel like I can't "waste" time on a relationship that's just going to stop at the friendship level (no potential of going more). If I was still in high school or college, and had all that free time then yea I would make female friends. I spend so little time with my friends... I feel more comfortable on my own most of the time. Lol i'm such an introvert.

Confession: As a girl reading this, and have guy friends.. yeah~ it's kinda sad.  I hope not all my male friends thought/think that way about me.  It goes back to the whole, can guys & girls be just friends thing.  

 

If both sides aren't attracted to each other as dating potential, why can't they just be friends (like one of your guy friends)?

[Flutterz]

Confession: As a girl reading this, and have guy friends.. yeah~ it's kinda sad.  I hope not all my male friends thought/think that way about me.  It goes back to the whole, can guys & girls be just friends thing.  

 

If both sides aren't attracted to each other as dating potential, why can't they just be friends (like one of your guy friends)?

I guess it's because usually one side is attracted, and that ruins everything. (or if VNs with osananajimi routes are to be trusted it works every time)

[Funyarinpa]

W-W-Who is this beautiful girl!?!?

Ok, now I'll add real picture of me. Do not ask anything.

ONE MORE YOUNG CHAP

edit: Loving these but could not find Cyr's picture lol, might post mine later

[Cyrillej1]

I guess it's because usually one side is attracted, and that ruins everything. (or if VNs with osananajimi routes are to be trusted it works every time)

Do you think, once someone develops feelings or confesses.. that the friendship is ruined?

 

Lemme ask it this way..  If you confessed to a girl, and she politely told you she couldn't return your feelings but would still want to stay friends if you wanted to as well, what would you do?

 

If the friendship did continue, would it no longer be a genuine friendship anymore?  It can never go back to normal?  

 

Are only 'real friendships' the ones where neither is nor will ever be attracted to each other? 

[Stray Cat]

Do you think, once someone develops feelings or confesses.. that the friendship is ruined?

 

Lemme ask it this way..  If you confessed to a girl, and she politely told you she couldn't return your feelings but would still want to stay friends if you wanted to as well, what would you do?

 

If the friendship did continue, would it no longer be a genuine friendship anymore?  It can never go back to normal?  

 

Are only 'real friendships' the ones where neither is attracted to each other? 

I think you have to end it, it's too painful otherwise and probably would never be the same and lead to suffering on one or both sides. 

 

Friendship between opposite sexes can exist when the other party is taken (as long as you're noble enough to respect that) or any other condition that makes them un-datable.  Other than that, I would say no, there is always the force of attraction.  

 

So yes, the only "real" friendships are when there's no attraction. 

[Funyarinpa]

Do you think, once someone develops feelings or confesses.. that the friendship is ruined?

Lemme ask it this way.. If you confessed to a girl, and she politely told you she couldn't return your feelings but would still want to stay friends if you wanted to as well, what would you do?

If the friendship did continue, would it no longer be a genuine friendship anymore? It can never go back to normal?

Are only 'real friendships' the ones where neither is attracted to each other?

Not that I am experienced on these things, but I think you would never have the same closeness again even if you atill remained friends.

Edit: Also, it can be hard to distinguish between the affection you feel for a friend and possible love for thrm so that might cause problems in intersexual friendships.

[rainsismyfav]

Confession: As a girl reading this, and have guy friends.. yeah~ it's kinda sad.  I hope not all my male friends thought/think that way about me.  It goes back to the whole, can guys & girls be just friends thing.  

 

If both sides aren't attracted to each other as dating potential, why can't they just be friends (like one of your guy friends)?

 

Of course it's possible for a guy to be friends with a girl. I'm just saying it's my personal preference to not expend too much energy on girl-friends, since guys as a friend, tend to be more fun for me. Needless to say, girl-friends have their own advantages, but sometimes I can't help but have unnecessary feelings towards that friendship (especially if it gets too close). So it's personally hard for me to make close girl-friends. It is pretty annoying for me to be carrying those emotional baggage. Girls also tend to be quite boring to be honest. I haven't yet to befriend a girl that did not share any of my nerdy habits.

 

Overall though, the gender doesn't really matter in friendships if it's only about "fun". I approach friendships with "fun" in mind. If I want to get deeply close to a girl, I might as well have it be with an actual girlfriend, instead of just a friend. By the way, I can't really get deeply close with guys.. It's not my nature to share my inner-self with fellow males.

 

Problem starts when I have fun with a girl-friend and I start being conscious of the difference in gender. Fun + Attraction... kinda breaks a friendship. I'd somehow have to treat her like a sister or something... which I'm not very good at since I have no sisters.

[Eclipsed]

In my experience and those around me, it's simply not possible to remain "genuine" friends after attempting but failing to sustain a romantic loving relationship.

There's just something forever missing in the dynamic and chances are the two don't really want to associate w/ each other anymore (unless they're the break up and get back together 1000x type of relationship). You can be on good terms with each other though of course.

As for the lesser case where two individuals were friends, one confessed, and the other rejected (so the two didn't actually get into a relationship) I guess it can be easier to continue the friendship. They have to be super good friends prior though- enough to be able to joke about the rejection and whatnot

[blahblahblahxxx]

I missed Cyrillej1's pic post, but I knew she was Asian! 

What?! Cyrillej1 posted a pic of herself and I missed it?? AND Eclipsed? Noooooooo!!!

 

 

Confession: I hate taking photos. Almost every single photo ever taken of me is unflattering in some way because pictures can't do my wondrous looks justice. Posting on the IRL thread felt so weird, because I ended up just sucking it up and posting the first picture that I took, which I almost never do.

 

Confession 2: I posted my IRL picture in an RP forum somewhere like three years ago and ended up getting a PM from a girl telling me I was super cute, and asking me if I was eighteen... and not to respond if I wasn't. Unfortunately for her, I was seventeen at the time. Totally responded anyway though. xD

You mad cute.

[Flutterz]

Do you think, once someone develops feelings or confesses.. that the friendship is ruined?

 

Lemme ask it this way..  If you confessed to a girl, and she politely told you she couldn't return your feelings but would still want to stay friends if you wanted to as well, what would you do?

 

If the friendship did continue, would it no longer be a genuine friendship anymore?  It can never go back to normal?  

 

Are only 'real friendships' the ones where neither is nor will ever be attracted to each other? 

Not "ever", but once someone confesses and get rejected, I'd imagine it becomes rather painful to spend time with someone they like, and they know likes them back, but only as a friend.

I might be completely wrong about this though, friendships aren't exactly my strong suit

[crunchytaco]

I was very good friends with several girls I was sexually attracted to in college. At least half of those were also equally attracted to me. We sexted all night usually after a night of drinking. We'd confess our sexual frustrations towards each other all the time. When it came to it, we'd stop short of sexual contact probably because we knew it'd ruin our friendships. It was such a fun time hanging out in college, I didn't mind passing up sex in order to keep that group nucleus intact. Eventually we parted ways once college was over. Now that I look back, I wish I had just given up the facade and boned all of them.

[blahblahblahxxx]

Do you think, once someone develops feelings or confesses.. that the friendship is ruined?

 

Lemme ask it this way..  If you confessed to a girl, and she politely told you she couldn't return your feelings but would still want to stay friends if you wanted to as well, what would you do?

 

If the friendship did continue, would it no longer be a genuine friendship anymore?  It can never go back to normal?  

 

Are only 'real friendships' the ones where neither is nor will ever be attracted to each other? 

There's no reason why things can't go back to normal. I'm friends with some of my exes and people I've turned down. Unless someone's world got shattered, it's not really mature to consider the friendship over. Nothing's worth losing a friend unless that friend was an asshole.

 

seriously though, anyone else think LinovaA is a qt? :3

[Flutterz]

 seriously though, anyone else think LinovaA is a qt? :3

Is this love at first sight?

[Cyrillej1]

Confession: I hate the TV show Bones.  Any show that equates having a character get pregnant with real character development needs to go away, forever.

Confession: I actually really liked the TV shows Bones, and Charmed.... they both had that, lol. 

[Tyrael]

crunchy, are you, like, Eros incarnate? You get more action than I'm like to see in a lifetime.

 

I think Eros would have remembered to use protection, especially when he was boning a married woman

 

Confession: As a girl reading this, and have guy friends.. yeah~ it's kinda sad. I hope not all my male friends thought/think that way about me. It goes back to the whole, can guys & girls be just friends thing.

If both sides aren't attracted to each other as dating potential, why can't they just be friends (like one of your guy friends)?

That's not what I meant though... I just really miss the intimacy of a relationship and I think I need that a lot more right now than their friendship if that makes sense. I'm not saying girls are only good for dating and nothing else. I hope I didn't make you feel that way at least...

It's more like, I've been getting the friendship treatment my whole life and I'm kinda getting tired of it ya know?

[Kosakyun]

Confession: The internet is so slow that I can't even finish the doujin that I've been reading for 30 minutes already. Screw you, ISP.

 

Confession 2: I can't open spoiler buttons right now because the internet is that cringeworthy.

 

Confession 3: I hate not being able to participate in something, so I'll spam pics of myself here as well.

 

Of course, they're all NSFW.

 

(NSFW)

What? You though I'd have NSFW pics? Sadly, I'm not on that level yet.

 

 

I'll also put a pic of me with someone that I should've gotten a relationship with, but I screwed up. She was the first one that reciprocated my feelings. Oh well. 'Tis for another day.

 

Bonus child pic:

[Kurisu-Chan]

I think you have to end it, it's too painful otherwise and probably would never be the same and lead to suffering on one or both sides. 

 

Friendship between opposite sexes can exist when the other party is taken (as long as you're noble enough to respect that) or any other condition that makes them un-datable.  Other than that, I would say no, there is always the force of attraction.  

 

So yes, the only "real" friendships are when there's no attraction. 

I completely not approve this post, once again, i'm going to argue with you, but this time, i won't jump to conclusions or be super mean.

 

You have to understand that not all men are horny pigs that only tries to fuck women, and not all women are only horny only to try to claim handsome guys and fuck them, no sorry, that's not how real human works.

 

I have a big problem with generalization, that statement that everyone MUST act the same, thus, i trully believe in opposite sex friendship, the same way i believe in interethnic friendship, i believe in interreligious friendship, in homosexual friendship...etc

 

But it's true, the moment one of the sides (and i'll say it, it can be the man or the woman, don't believe that only men fell in love with their friend) fall in love, it becomes extremely painful to maintain the friendship, it's possible, but you need time, a lot of time, to heal the pleas and to build a better friendship with more solid bases. 

[Tyrael]

I completely not approve this post, once again, i'm going to argue with you, but this time, i won't jump to conclusions or be super mean.

  

But I like you best when you're being mean

[Kurisu-Chan]

Confession : when i was a child, i had big anger management problems, it wasn't because i was a problem children, but because i never fell in my place, in my real life, no one ever tried to understand me, and i was alone, for a long, long, long time.

Then, i changed, i became a better human being, stoped being angry for no reason, found my place in society and all.

 

But, these recent times, my paranoid persona awoken, and it's poisoning me, forcing me to be mean to everyone.