I'll lead you Jk~ Hmm, for me I don't know! Lol. I haven't been in enough relationships to really have a preference. Someone willing to be pushed and in return push me to better ourselves. Also, while wanting to better ourselves, I don't mean in a materialstic or social standing way. More on physical health, mental health, family and friends, while OK with not being to ambitious. Basically able to be happy with what you have! I dont mind, if u r a trap.