I prefer Shounen-ai than Yaoi. Also I hate pretentious fans who like Yaoi just to fit in.
At first i thought I was into yaoi, and my first shipping was SasuXNaru, but after taking a glimpse of hardcore BL, I realized I'm not really fund of two guys doing something...... intimately.........
The butthole thing still creeps me out, and after seeing two real people doing it... I...backed out.
I have this realization, what if my boyfriend is doing this...and gave me the shivers.
I'm okay with shounen-ai though, it makes my heart plump for some reason. Maybe because the chemistry of two characters are well written., and probably more well written than most Shoujo stories I've read/seen.
I like Yuri too, strawberry panic is a favorite of mine. But for some reason, I can't like Yuri in OELVN's. I don't know...I don't it fits..or maybe I'm biased with JP women..hahaha ^^;
Most of the people here on fuwanovel are males, there's another forum which is the complete opposite of here and full of females.