Kenshin_sama Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Alright, big confession time. Some might say this is too personal to be posting on the internet, whilst I am not just another 4chan person, hidden behind the veil of anonimity. Hidden ContentTaking yourself out of your comfort zone is a double edged sword. It can either give you the fortune you desire, or it can fall apart and make you upset. As long as you continue to not make change in your life, nothing in your life will ever change unless you get lucky. But if there's one thing I've learned over time is that miracles are too rare to be relied on. If you want to succeed in life, you need to make goals for yourself and stick to them. Make a plan to meet your goals. If your plan doesn't work, change the plan, don't change your goals. Ambitious goals require a lot of time to meet them; you're never gonna amount to anything if all you do is change your mind. Make sure that what you pursue in life is the best possible course of action for you to take. If you're not sure what you want to do, think very long and hard about it. Thanks to the internet, you have nearly unlimited access to resources so that you can help you think about your life's ambition. Take your time to learn this; think about how much you can achieve over the course of your lifetime if you simply invest a few days, a week, or even a month of research into deciding on your goals. The potential is tremendous!Another thing you need to be careful of is letting your emotions get the better of you. By nature, human beings are very emotional. It can drive us to overcome physical limitations, inspire creativity, and to live by more than just practical means. At the same time, it can also create fear and depression. We let ourselves get overwhelmed by such emotions and fall into a state of laziness. Overcoming negative emotion is not an easy process, but in order for you to proceed with your goals, you need to learn to conquer your emotions and not let them take control of you. But if you find that you can't do it through your own efforts, seek help. In order to be able to overcome tough obstacles on your own, you need to be tough, and you need to be disciplined. The mind is a very complex thing, and not everyone is capable of being strong. In many cases, however, collective effort can accomplish so much more than individual effort. If you need encouragement to do what you need to do, find a friend who is willing to do it. Getting treatment from a mental health specialist can work wonders for improving your state of mind. Funyarinpa 1 Quote
Abyssal Monkey Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Confession: today may be a bad day for me. The real confession: I might be indoctrinated considering that this superstition was the first thing I thought of when this happened. Quote
Nashetania Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Confession! I think this sentence is confessionable Quote
Tyrael Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Confession: She said no, what a surprise Quote
Valmore Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Confession: She said no, what a surprise But you tried. That's what counts. Quote
Funyarinpa Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Confession: She said no, what a surprise Don't sweat too much over it, what is done is done Quote
Tyrael Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Confession: She said no, what a surprise Don't sweat too much over it, what is done is done Sure. My perfect track record of getting rejected when asking girls out is still intact, at least. Quote
InvictusCobra Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Thanks for the kind words everyone. I've actually been going to therapy for nearly two years now as well (started soon after that eventful night). My therapist says I may not realise it, but I've made small improvements recently that show how I've made progress that may seem insignifcant for me, but are really the beginning of a good path. I still don't know, given that my problems are still dormant and I've "solved" them by avoiding the triggers, which is a problem given that some may make me face them sooner or later. K450 1 Quote
Yuuko Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Confession: She said no, what a surprise Don't sweat too much over it, what is done is done Sure. My perfect track record of getting rejected when asking girls out is still intact, at least.At least you have some kind of interaction with girls ;__; It would be nice to talk to 3D girls. Even 2D imagination waifu men need it sometimes. Flutterz, LinovaA, atorq and 1 other 4 Quote
Nashetania Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Confession: She said no, what a surprise Don't sweat too much over it, what is done is done Sure. My perfect track record of getting rejected when asking girls out is still intact, at least.Obviously you are doing something wrong Quote
Yuuko Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Obviously you are doing something wrong Or maybe it's the girls?! Possible tsundere?!! Quote
atorq Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Obviously you are doing something wrong Or maybe it's the girls?! Possible tsundere?!!Nah, I mean I sure have never been rejected. Quote
Tyrael Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Obviously you are doing something wrong Or maybe it's the girls?! Possible tsundere?!! Nah, I mean I sure have never been rejected. We can't all be womanizers Quote
Valmore Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Confession: She said no, what a surprise Don't sweat too much over it, what is done is done Sure. My perfect track record of getting rejected when asking girls out is still intact, at least.At least you have some kind of interaction with girls ;__; It would be nice to talk to 3D girls. Even 2D imagination waifu men need it sometimes.Are you my long lost Scandinavian twin? Quote
Nashetania Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Obviously you are doing something wrong Or maybe it's the girls?! Possible tsundere?!! Nah, I mean I sure have never been rejected. We can't all be womanizers Natural selection Quote
TexasDice Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 Being an extroverted misanthrope is really hard. You guys have no idea. Quote
Valmore Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 I know the truth... it will frighten you and change your perspective of the Heaven's Feel... Kenshin_sama 1 Quote
Zodai Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 Two minutes to Fallout 4's release in my region.I'll be in there for a while, just so you know. See you on the other side~ Later! Quote
Funyarinpa Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 Two minutes to Fallout 4's release in my region.I'll be in there for a while, just so you know. See you on the other side~ Later!have fun until your game crashes/bugs/glitches or your save gets corrupted Quote
Flutterz Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 Confession: I'm sad because Fallout 4 is taking a while to unpack >.>AND I WANT TO PLAY IT NOW Quote
Zodai Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 Confession: I'm sad because Fallout 4 is taking a while to unpack >.>AND I WANT TO PLAY IT NOWMe too;-; Quote
Yuuko Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 Are you my long lost Scandinavian twin?Nope since I'm not a Scandinavian Quote
Zodai Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 FALLOUT 4 IS LAUCHING - WE ARE GO, I REPEAT, WE ARE GO. Welcome home. Quote
OriginalRen Posted November 10, 2015 Author Posted November 10, 2015 Confession: For some reason, I don't feel so well emotionally, yet there's nothing happening in my life that would make me think that way. I worry because I'm not really sure what's wrong. :/ Quote
Zodai Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 Confession: For some reason, I don't feel so well emotionally, yet there's nothing happening in my life that would make me think that way. I worry because I'm not really sure what's wrong. :/That happens more often than you might think. Take a break or find someone to talk to if you can. Give your head some time to rest. Quote
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