Here is my views on things. I'm a woman.
Now, its not being a "gentleman" to hold the door.
Its called not being a fucking asshole and letting the door hit someone in the face.
Also, if you ASK ME to dinner or somewhere else, I expect you to pay, why?
Because you asked me out.
The only time I don't expect someone to pay for me is when its not a date.
If my friends invite me somewhere like to dinner but with friends, obviously I would pay for me.
But its just common decency to pay for the girl when you ask her out on a date.
But yeah, most things are just common sense, like holding the door for the person behind you.
I don't expect the guy to pull out my chair, push me in, throw his jacket over a puddle, etc.
lol that's just ridiculous.