Don't go in with high or moderate expectations, it is a nukige after all but as far as that goes it's still okay if you like the fem dom kind of thing.
It also has a mix of other things that pander to other fetishes.
The first step isn't always the easiest but it might lead you to something you enjoy and who knows maybe you'll end up getting into eroge (One of us, one of us) and other genres besides Otome. I wish you the best with your first experience
Yeah I don't think the thread is at risk of being shut down, that being said my only recommendation would be as @Fiddle suggested playing around with the filters on VNDB. I hope you can find what you're looking for