I have a problem

[Orcka]

WARNING must be 18+ to help me with this issue, don't say I didn't warn you:

This is a bit embarrassing, but I basically have this: Delayed Ejaculation 

I had this problem with my previous sex partner and I'm afraid of going thru with it again if I develop a new relationship. PLS HALP!

 

[Rose]

See a doctor?

[Orcka]

2 minutes ago, Rose said:

See a doctor?

I did, doctor's response:

[Rose]

6 minutes ago, Orcka said:

I did, doctor's response:

Follow his orders? Not like anyone here is more qualified than him to tell you how to solve a medical condition.

[Nosebleed]

I know shitposting can be fun, but you've continuously posted random joke threads in the General Discussion board for a while now when they should clearly go into the Coliseum of Chatter board. Figured I'd mention it by now since I've had to move all of them. Next time, please post them in the correct board.

Furthermore, most of these threads are really crude, clickbaity and based mostly around inside jokes no one really gets or wants to see.
I know this is the coliseum of chatter but... could you use some common sense in the future?
One thread is one thing but you've done this with every single thread you create.

It is in the rules that excessive amounts of these may result in threads getting deleted. I'd like people to at least think before they post, even if just a little.

I'm not going to do anything now but I figured I'd leave this message as a warning for future references.

[Valmore]

So is this a real thread or a clickbait thread?

[Orcka]

2 hours ago, Nosebleed said:

I know shitposting can be fun, but you've continuously posted random joke threads in the General Discussion board for a while now when they should clearly go into the Coliseum of Chatter board. Figured I'd mention it by now since I've had to move all of them. Next time, please post them in the correct board.

Furthermore, most of these threads are really crude, clickbaity and based mostly around inside jokes no one really gets or wants to see.
I know this is the coliseum of chatter but... could you use some common sense in the future?
One thread is one thing but you've done this with every single thread you create.

It is in the rules that excessive amounts of these may result in threads getting deleted. I'd like people to at least think before they post, even if just a little.

I'm not going to do anything now but I figured I'd leave this message as a warning for future references.

Actually this is very serious Nosebleed, this isn't a shitpost, I genuinely have a sexual disorder and it has been plaguing me for a while now. I placed this in the general board because it is the only category that seemed to fit the criteria asking for advice on personal issues.   

Perhaps the title is a bit "click bait" but I literately just made a generic title, actually I would take it a step forward and call it lazy. 

Plus, I HAVE been posting most of my forums on the CoC, not sure what thread you are referring to. 

So thanks Nosebleed, thanks for moving my thread to the CoC, now everyone who sees this will think that my disorder is a joke.

 

2 hours ago, Rose said:

Follow his orders? Not like anyone here is more qualified than him to tell you how to solve a medical condition.

He recommended me Viagra, L-Lysine, and Candex. No anvil. 

The Viagra just gave me an uncomfortable boner for 5 hours straight, never trying that again. The other 2 are basically vitamer supplements, and I didn't really notice anything different with my sexual behavior, even after taking them for 3 months. He did say however: that the medications will only help so much, this is mostly psychological. 

I do have a new doctor now, so perhaps I can try again, never hurts to ask. 

[Valmore]

OK, if you're serious then...

You may just be slow out of the gate naturally. I'd have to say admittedly that it probably takes me longer to climax then most guys. Mine is probably psychologically related, though also if I'm tired it also affects me. There's a lot of reasons why you might be slow to climax, so you might want to look at the list of common reasons and try narrowing it down from the list honestly.

[Darklord Rooke]

1 hour ago, Rose said:

Follow his orders? Not like anyone here is more qualified than him to tell you how to solve a medical condition.

Oh? Well, maybe not more qualified but I seem to recall a certain admin who's studying medicine, and I'm positive he would love to help out with this problem. He's a tad busy, but let's see if he turns up.

@Tay @Tay @Tay @Tay @Tay @Tay @Tay what would you recommend for this problem?  

[Dergonu]

1 hour ago, Orcka said:

Actually this is very serious Nosebleed, this isn't a shitpost, I genuinely have a sexual disorder and it has been plaguing me for a while now. I placed this in the general board because it is the only category that seemed to fit the criteria asking for advice on personal issues.   

Perhaps the title is a bit "click bait" but I literately just made a generic title, actually I would take it a step forward and call it lazy. 

Plus, I HAVE been posting most of my forums on the CoC, not sure what thread you are referring to. 

So thanks Nosebleed, thanks for moving my thread to the CoC, now everyone who sees this will think that my disorder is a joke.

Ok .... But what makes you think a forum full of visual novel fans will be able to help you with your ... Penis ... issue...

Even if some of us are medical proffesionals, (don't know of any but .. Maybe there is one of them here,) wouldn't any medical site or .. hotline, whatever, be better than this place?

[Kawasumi]

2 hours ago, Orcka said:

WARNING must be 18+ to help me with this issue, don't say I didn't warn you:

 

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I had that problem for a long time, my ex GF and I did a lot to combat it and it worked, I basically just needed to relax more and a super romantic sex session basically solved my problem, dunno what you need, but its most likely something psychological, at least in my experience

[Orcka]

14 minutes ago, Dergonu said:

Ok .... But what makes you think a forum full of visual novel fans will be able to help you with your ... Penis ... issue...

Even if some of us are medical proffesionals, (don't know of any but .. Maybe there is one of them here,) wouldn't any medical site or .. hotline, whatever, be better than this place?

I can't ask for advice on a community I commonly associate with?

Most people ask these personal questions on forums they are affiliated with out of trust and embarrassment.

I understand that everyone here doesn't exactly have.......sexual experience. 

But I have made a hypothesis thinking that my involvement with VNs and other forms of Japanese entertainment has somehow changed my sexual personification (not sure if that makes sense). One explanation from the link I provided states this: "unrealistic expectations from your sexual partner". My other hypothesis is that I have yet to figure out my sexual preference, it seems for that normal sex doesn't fit the bill.            

I have also heard that this problem is very common among introverts like myself. 

[Kawasumi]

4 minutes ago, Orcka said:

I can't ask for advice on a community I commonly associate with?

Most people ask these personal questions on forums they are affiliated with out of trust and embarrassment.

I understand that everyone here doesn't exactly have.......sexual experience. 

But I have made a hypothesis thinking that my involvement with VNs and other forms of Japanese entertainment has somehow changed my sexual personification (not sure if that makes sense). One explanation from the link I provided states this: "unrealistic expectations from your sexual partner". My other hypothesis is that I have yet to figure out my sexual preference, it seems for that normal sex doesn't fit the bill.            

try anal  

[Orcka]

15 minutes ago, Kawasumi said:

try anal  

I want to be consensual u know 

Hmmm let me see what I love in the prons district:

Tags: 

Domination 

Panty and Stockings with Garterbelt (not the show you fucking casuals)

Ear Licking

Foot Fetish

Sensual

JOI

Vocal 

Tease

Cosplay

Hentai

VN H-scenes

.......................

Oh wow something is very wrong with me 

 

 

[Kawasumi]

1 minute ago, Orcka said:

I want to be consensual u know 

Hmmm let me see what I love in the prons district:

Tags: 

Domination 

Panty and Stockings with Garterbelt (not the show you fucking casuals)

Ear Licking

Foot Fetish

Sensual

JOI

Vocal 

Tease

Cosplay

Hentai

VN H-scenes

.......................

Oh wow something is very wrong with me 

 

 

So you cant have consensual anal sex?!  

[Orcka]

Just now, Kawasumi said:

So you cant have consensual anal sex?!  

Not into anal......

I seem to be into other things tho......

[Kawasumi]

3 minutes ago, Orcka said:

Not into anal......

I seem to be into other things tho......

shame, prostate orgasms are easier to get  

[Orcka]

3 minutes ago, Kawasumi said:

shame, prostate orgasms are easier to get  

Wait........ Are u referring to me getting the end of the stick? 

[Kawasumi]

Just now, Orcka said:

Wait........ Are u referring to me getting the end of the stick? 

well, if the first option work, why not try the second one?

[spademan]

Honestly need to give up the prons for a while, it is corrupting your brain  and if you are wanking it make sure you aren't death-gripping it. Would also try to take a shot or two or get a little high (anything that will help relax) b/c if you are posting this on a vn board you probably are going to be thinking about this issue while irl.

[Okarin]

Okay, I'll try to answer seriously, so here goes. Provided it was actually physical and not psychological (most issues related with dysfunctions are of the mind), your girlfriend is in for a treat, I don't mean to be crude, but you can let her finish first, and since she'll be grateful for the pleasure she received, the least she could do is keep at it until you're satisfied also. I personally consider it worse to be a premature shooter.

It's harder if you're both teens, but for adults every hurdle can be overcome -with work and mutual push.