Darklord Rooke Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 1 hour ago, Soulless Watcher said: Ok, I may be misunderstanding something or I have simply not stumbled across the right news or comment sections. I have not personally observed anything that indicates that there is a mass movement to suppress the "white man's" voice, I fully admit that I may just not be aware of it since I don't get out of the house much. It's just usually when I hear about white dudes complaining about their rights being violated or being "shamed" for their race it's because of something like a cakeshop being forced to serve a gay couple, or African american students being bussed into a white school, or because the movie 12 Years a Slave exists. Going by new thinking, all white people are racist and all men are sexist. If you haven't seen this new form of thinking, then yeah you don't get out of the house much. Has to do with oppression and privilege. White people are seen as the problem, men are seen as the problem, straight people are seen as the problem, the system that privileges all these people are seen as the problem, and yes people banding together to find solutions tend to exclude these groups because who needs the opinions of a bunch of racist and sexist people, yes? Especially when they're seen as part of the problem. And who needs to cater to a bunch of racists, sexists, and priviliged people? The only time when this isn't true is when the straight white men agree with everything the oppressed minorities say. Disagree and you're opinion is dismissed. Why? See above. It's a very real thing that white people are getting sick of getting accused of being racist, sexist, ablist and whatever other derogatory term people can pick out of a bag. They're getting sick of having their problems trivialised because they're the oppressors, which must automatically mean that every white person has it easy because "oppressors". The people using this new language cherry pick a very select meaning of 'racism' to prevent the same accusation being thrown back into their face. You hear it when people say 'reverse racism doesn't exist'. That's actually both true and false. Reverse racism doesn't exist from a sociological standpoint, because sociologists only concern themselves with societies and not individuals, but it exists when you use the normal definition. That is, sociologists narrow the definition to only what they find useful. People will flat out deny the idea that reverse racism exists because it's PC to side with the oppressed, but it's flawed logic in any case that's being used to push an agenda. It's a good agenda, equality is always desired, and "the end justifies the means" is definitely a thing, but the alienation of white people in new equal future is very real. What does this mean? Well partly the following. Let me give you an example using the Trump election. Consider the arguments that are normally used. Straight white men are routinely called racist and sexist, so when ALL MEN are automatically sexist and ALL WHITE PEOPLE are automatically racist, what difference does it make if they vote Trump? "Vote Trump and you're sexist" -> "I'm sexist anyway, how does it make a difference?" "Vote Trump and you're racist" -> "I'm racist anyway, what difference does it make?" When you normalise these words, you strip them of power. So now that all men are automatically sexist, they're free to vote for Trump. Now that all white people are automatically racist, they're free to vote for Trump. See where I'm headed? xD Now, what you think about this depends very much on your perspective. It is a very real thing that white people, straight people, and men (AS A GROUP) face many more advantages then minority groups, and breaking down that privilege may very well mean taking strong action. BUT, when we're talking about voting, and the people you're fighting against is the majority, and the people you're fighting against still command a decent number of votes, then alienating this section of the community could very well see the sort of backlash that encourages people to vote Trump. Soulless Watcher 1 Quote
Soulless Watcher Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 (edited) You know what, I just realized what it is. I live in bumfuck Kansas where everyone is white anyways, so I don't see many groups of minorities interacting with white men. Edited November 13, 2016 by Soulless Watcher Darklord Rooke and Valmore 2 Quote
Darklord Rooke Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 4 minutes ago, Soulless Watcher said: You know what, I just realized what it is. I live in bumfuck Kansas where everyone is white anyways, so I don't see many groups of minorities interacting with white men. Let me show you what you're missing: Quote As you reap comfort from being white, we suffer for being black and people of color. But your comfort is linked to our pain and suffering. Just as my comfort in being male is linked to the suffering of women, which makes me sexist, so, too, you are racist. That is the gift that I want you to accept, to embrace. It is a form of knowledge that is taboo. Imagine the impact that the acceptance of this gift might have on you and the world. http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2015/12/24/dear-white-america/?_r=1 Soulless Watcher 1 Quote
Soulless Watcher Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 Alrighty I think I can understand a bit more why a large portion of the white male demographic voted as they did, God am I depressed now. Quote
WinterfuryZX Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 10 hours ago, solidbatman said: A fear of many people against universal healthcare, is the government telling them what they can and cant have treated, where they can and can't go, and eventually, what some have labeled, "death panels" where the terminally ill, mentally ill, or elderly are denied healthcare to save costs. No wait, that doesn't mean private healthcare will be abolished, for exhample here (and everywhere else in europe) it's partially private. Quote
Jun Inoue Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 3 hours ago, Darklord Rooke said: Let me show you what you're missing: http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2015/12/24/dear-white-america/?_r=1 It's an issue of responsibility that most people don't accept or even acknowledge. We are not people per se, but a combination of facts and characteristics. The fact that we are white men brings certain things to our table, and that's when people say "but I haven't personally done anything wrong, I'm not racist!" Yes, you are not at fault, buy you do have an inherent responsibility for being white. You were born with certain advantages, which are linked to the disadvantages of people of other colour. And so on with women, and minorities. A pretty good representation of this that I once heard was: People flip about the amount of care and work done for minorities, women, people of race, etc, claiming that it's so unfair we all have to go so far when most haven't done jack shit against any of them. The problem with that mentality, though, is that you are complaining about the other team scoring a few goals in a match of football, but on the first half your team had been leading 120 - 0. Quote
Darklord Rooke Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 Eh, you can do that all day. Simply be being born in the United States, you have certain advantages (even as a person of colour) that people in other less fortunate parts of the world don’t have. The disadvantages people in the third world face are linked to the comparative wealth and advantages you enjoy (even as a person of colour) in America. Yet this isn’t shoved in their face all day, every day, Hyundai. Well, except by Charity advertisements. The world is a competitive place, everybody, every country, is in competition with everybody else. People climb to the top by trodding on everyone else. The people in the middle that call the people at the top oppressors are oppressing the people at the bottom. Only the people at the bottom (and they're not the people living in any First World country) can truly be called victims. Quote
solidbatman Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 6 hours ago, WinterfuryZX said: No wait, that doesn't mean private healthcare will be abolished, for exhample here (and everywhere else in europe) it's partially private. The problem is, with the current set up, most states only have two providers, the government, or a single private company. The current law does not allow you to shop for healthcare with anyone outside of your state. So if I find that Aetna prices are cheaper across the border in South Carolina, I wouldnt be able to use them and I'm stuck with Blue Cross Blue Shield here in NC. So the private companies have almost no incentive to lower costs, especially since the gov't keeps increasing their cost. Quote
Valmore Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 5 hours ago, Jun Inoue said: It's an issue of responsibility that most people don't accept or even acknowledge. We are not people per se, but a combination of facts and characteristics. The fact that we are white men brings certain things to our table, and that's when people say "but I haven't personally done anything wrong, I'm not racist!" Yes, you are not at fault, buy you do have an inherent responsibility for being white. You were born with certain advantages, which are linked to the disadvantages of people of other colour. And so on with women, and minorities. A pretty good representation of this that I once heard was: People flip about the amount of care and work done for minorities, women, people of race, etc, claiming that it's so unfair we all have to go so far when most haven't done jack shit against any of them. The problem with that mentality, though, is that you are complaining about the other team scoring a few goals in a match of football, but on the first half your team had been leading 120 - 0. It depends who you're talking about. There are plenty of white guys who do understand the system and how it came about. The problem lies in the idea that we're automatically racist because we were born looking the same way as the ones who created the system, and it's something that gets levied at us every time something goes the way that is seen as white guy advantage. This election is a perfect example. If you really think every last vote for Trump was the result of sexism, or racism, and there are plenty of examples out there that show people think this way, there's a problem. Not to mention, when you even bring it up as a problem, you get shouted down. Kind of counter-intuitive to a group that claims they like inclusion and wants to be the party of everyone. (Of course, politically speaking on a national scale it's all a load of bullshit, but I digress.) It also doesn't help when the narrative is incorrect. Take equal pay, for instance. The Democrats love to pull out the old "70-something cents on the dollar" line. It rallies the base, gets women angry at men. "You stupid men, you make more than us you sexist jerks." The problem is that old stat still comes from a pool of every job out there slammed together and spitting a result with nothing else in mind but men versus women. There have been studies that show when you account for factors in jobs that are the same (ie, not putting engineers in with school teachers, etc.). Pay between men and women are pretty equal under those circumstances. The factor? It comes in what jobs men and women choose to do, mainly being men go into higher-paying fields. So the solution isn't some "equal pay" legislation, it's get women interested into going into those other fields. But that doesn't make for a good bumper sticker, right? Even in the waning moments of Clinton's campaign, she was more focused on "Love Trumps Hate" then anything else. The slogan itself basically tells anyone voting for Trump that you're a "hater." That's not going to endear you to anyone but those who are "already with you." ExtraMana 1 Quote
ExtraMana Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 Wew. Looking at all Hilary defense force posts in the beginning of this thread. I'm just glad America won't be going to War with Russia. Yuuko 1 Quote
bigfatround0 Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 That all white people are racist narrative isn't a big enough problem like you guys are making it out to be. It's mostly on the internet with pockets of it here and there irl. I talked to a bunch of people that I know in my city and the biggest reasons they gave for voting for Trump was because Hillary is bought, they support the wall, guns, and religious beliefs. Mostly the same old reasons they lean to the right. Quote
WinterfuryZX Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 (edited) 3 hours ago, solidbatman said: The problem is, with the current set up, most states only have two providers, the government, or a single private company. The current law does not allow you to shop for healthcare with anyone outside of your state. So if I find that Aetna prices are cheaper across the border in South Carolina, I wouldnt be able to use them and I'm stuck with Blue Cross Blue Shield here in NC. So the private companies have almost no incentive to lower costs, especially since the gov't keeps increasing their cost. Your system is simply too much different from what I'm used to, I feel you have to live there to fully understand it. Edited November 13, 2016 by WinterfuryZX typo Quote
proxygames Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 (edited) 1 hour ago, bigfatround0 said: That all white people are racist narrative isn't a big enough problem like you guys are making it out to be. It's mostly on the internet with pockets of it here and there irl. I talked to a bunch of people that I know in my city and the biggest reasons they gave for voting for Trump was because Hillary is bought, they support the wall, guns, and religious beliefs. Mostly the same old reasons they lean to the right. Frankly I don't think religion should be a basis on how you make decisions. And as for the white people are racist part, when you openly support a wall it's not wonder why people think that. As for guns, I'm often wondering how much it will take for people to start thinking about why maybe stricter laws are needed. The killing of common workers, kids, and LGBTQ doesn't seem to sway anybody so nothing likely will. Honestly I never thought America was a great country. If a Government allowed slavery and even after that allowed there to be laws against a single race, I have little hope things will get better. I don't condone people calling all whites racist because that's just stupid and wrong, and I know just cause someone voted for Trump doesn't mean they are sexist or racist. Problem is though this country for many is seen as place where they can be who they want to be. However when you have a president who, for example, wants to get rid of the protection rights for the LGBTQ people and build a giant wall, it's not wonder why people are upset with us. (And note, I don't like Hilary either.) I suppose my main problem with people who vote for him is, your seemingly okay with allowing an entire group to be discriminated against and maybe even killed because of your religion. People here are ignorant to things and often only think of themselves and not others, which is depressing. But like I said, I don't find this country a very good place and until people learn to be more compassionate, I don't see things changing much. Edited November 13, 2016 by proxygames bigfatround0 1 Quote
Tyr Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 10 hours ago, Jun Inoue said: It's an issue of responsibility that most people don't accept or even acknowledge. We are not people per se, but a combination of facts and characteristics. The fact that we are white men brings certain things to our table, and that's when people say "but I haven't personally done anything wrong, I'm not racist!" Yes, you are not at fault, buy you do have an inherent responsibility for being white. You were born with certain advantages, which are linked to the disadvantages of people of other colour. And so on with women, and minorities. This is the most racist thing that was posted in this thread so far. Even the ugliest fanfictions about how the trump presidency will turn out are not as racist, toxic and dangerous as your political and social ideologies. The difference being that you seem to be actual serious about this. Quote
Kuma Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 Serious, now we're at "White Privilege" niveau? Anyone wants to glas some juice? And While we're at it: no more chocolate for murica, looking at you, man moving into the big white house, those cotton clothes don't fit anymore. /satire /cynism /sarcasm /notreallyserioushere That's another problem with 'modern entitlement', The Others are always at fault. Whenever something happens the finger always point the other way. "While it may not your fault, it is your fault for existing in this situation" or stuff like that might be worse than racism. Blaming people just for existing is pretty low. Racism can be explained with fearing the 'different', but finding fault in people just living as white or black or queer or straight or something else is the worst. ExtraMana and proxygames 2 Quote
ExtraMana Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 2 hours ago, bigfatround0 said: That all white people are racist narrative isn't a big enough problem like you guys are making it out to be. It's mostly on the internet with pockets of it here and there irl. I talked to a bunch of people that I know in my city and the biggest reasons they gave for voting for Trump was because Hillary is bought, they support the wall, guns, and religious beliefs. Mostly the same old reasons they lean to the right. My white straight university professors use this line and I can tell you the students are tired of it. Quote
bigfatround0 Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 (edited) 21 minutes ago, ExtraMana said: My white straight university professors use this line and I can tell you the students are tired of it. Like I said, there are some people that believe it but they're a small enough number that they don't make much of a difference. Are you even American? If that's your youtube channel then you're clearly not from the US. In that case your comment isn't really relevant here. Edited November 13, 2016 by bigfatround0 Quote
Jun Inoue Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 (edited) 1 hour ago, Tyrosyn said: This is the most racist thing that was posted in this thread so far. Even the ugliest fanfictions about how the trump presidency will turn out are not as racist, toxic and dangerous as your political and social ideologies. The difference being that you seem to be actual serious about this. You seem to confuse analysis for opinion, and to not know what racism means. If you seriously think that people don't have different advantages and disadvantages in life depending on ethnic, place of birth, family, cultural background, and a long list of etc, then you are the one whose mentality is quite scary. That level of denial is nothing short of plain ridiculous. I'd laugh at your comment if it wasn't that there's so, so many people who think like you, and seriously belief there's no such thing as inherent advantages or a sense of responsibility. It's quite funny that talking about conscious responsibility and accept that we most certainly do not live in a utopia and who we are is based in more than what we say and do makes you think this is "toxic and dangerous." I'd say "I'm guessing," but your denial kinda points me at thinking that you seriously belief that there's no such thing as differences in opportunities between ethnics, genre, etc. You deny a difference in opportunities depending on someone's background and birth, and call me a racist for it. This is honestly the dumbest thing anyone's said in this threat. By, far. Edited November 13, 2016 by Jun Inoue Quote
Kuma Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 (edited) 22 minutes ago, Jun Inoue said: If you seriously think that people don't have different advantages and disadvantages in life depending on ethnic, place of birth, family, cultural background, and a long list of etc, then you are the one whose mentality is quite scary. I don't think he was saying that there are no advantages about birth, family etc, I think he is more pissed about the "take responsibility for being born white part". At least thats the part that pisses me of. "Take responsibility for your parents not having enough genes to make you some minority without privileges" does seem kind of dumb to be honest. While we have the chance to make the world a better place, it is by no means an obligation. People can't be made responsible for something that is not their fault. Sure, you could blame neighborhoods, cities, states, nations and at the end the world. Does blaming and crying for responsibility change something vor the better? NO. If you have time to blame use it to change something. Start small and it might grow. Or it withers and dies. Edited November 13, 2016 by Prinny Quote
Jun Inoue Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 (edited) 17 minutes ago, Prinny said: I don't think he was saying that there are no advantages about birth, family etc, I think he is more pissed about the "take responsibility for being born white part". At least thats the part that pisses me of. "Take responsibility for your parents not having enough genes to make you some minority without privileges" does kind of dumb to be honest. While we have the chance to make the world a better place, it is by no means an obligation. People can't be made responsible for something that is not their fault. Sure, you could blame neighborhoods, cities, states, nations and at the end the world. Does blaming and crying for responsibility change something vor the better? NO. If you have time to blame use it to change something. Start small and it might grow. Or it withers and dies. It can piss you off, but it really don't matter much to me if you shout to the universe "I refuse thiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiis." As I said, the responsibility is inherent. Do you deny having an inherent advantage due to your background? With your answer, it seems you don't deny it. Consequently, there IS a responsibility. Maybe the problem is that you are misunderstanding the message. Having a responsibility doesn't mean you need to "pay back" or feel awful or curse your fate for being born white or whatever. But it does mean you should be conscious of the fact. You should realise that we live in a society that is kind of sucky for other ethnicities, a society in which women have far more problems than us men. Similar to how many people do nothing when young if they see bullying happening, and later on feel bad cuz "maybe I wasn't the bully, but I could have tried to do smth," as doing nothing is an indirect way to accept bullying, there's a big difference between being conscious that who you are in part depends on things that simply aren't in your control. In the same way, someone who was born with a disadvantage most certainly also didn't deserve it, and still they live like that. "sorry for not being born into a minority without privileges"? That's not what responsibility means, try not being so childish. You have an advantage, because someone else has a disadvantage, it's how we built the society we live in. You have no obligation to do anything? Very true, but then do not even try to say that you are not racist by passivity or acceptance, as I mentioned in my first comment, because your statement is you literally announcing that since you didn't do anything actively unfair, you refuse to accept any responsibility for past actions, even if they are what brought you an advantage, and a disadvantage to others. Like I said, the match symbol. You're telling me how unfair and silly it is to demand action or even thinking about how we are racist/sexist by passivity and by how and where we were brought up because you have done no harm, but this merely hides the fact that your team has been scoring goals nonstop. Just going "oh, I have certain advantages? Well, tough luck for others!" is quite showing of what I've been saying. Also, your last statement is plain sad. Now you are shifting the topic and blame, and saying that I should be doing more to fix the world. This, immediately after saying that you reject even the slightest of responsibilities and refuse to do anything for anyone that's not yourself. Good job, you firmly plant yourself as part of the problem, and are proud of it. It's somewhat scary that you openly declare yourself as a bad person, and feel so happy with it. "You could blame people, but it doesn't fix things, so I'll do absolutely nothing and argue YOU should be doing stuff." Flagrant logic there. Especially the swap of responsibility and conscience for blame and crying. As mature as your moral standard. Edited November 13, 2016 by Jun Inoue Quote
Kaguya Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 Discussion over privilege is fine, but please do refrain from personally insulting each other. Any further posts in that vein will be hidden. ExtraMana and Darklord Rooke 2 Quote
EastCoastDrifter Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 This entire thread(s) is a mistake. Now users are turning on each other over ideologies and personal opinions. ExtraMana, Kuma and Soulless Watcher 3 Quote
bigfatround0 Posted November 14, 2016 Posted November 14, 2016 Politic threads always devolve into users attacking each other. Personally I don't think there's anything wrong with attacking other people. It's just a part of the internet culture. Quote
Kuma Posted November 14, 2016 Posted November 14, 2016 5 minutes ago, Jun Inoue said: Do you deny having an inherent advantage due to your background? With your answer, it seems you don't deny it. Consequently, there IS a responsibility. No. Consequently it is a FACT. Confusing it with a responsibility does nothing than inflicting an imaginary burden on those that do not live in poorest condition. You say we have a responsibility because the generations that came before us worked their buttocks off to give us what we have? 6 minutes ago, Jun Inoue said: Having a responsibility doesn't mean you need to "pack back" or feel awful or curse your fate for being born white or whatever. But it does mean you should be conscious of the fact. You should realise that we live in a society that is kind of sucky for other ethnicities, a society in which women have far more problems than us men. Similar to how many people do nothing when young if they see bullying happening, and later on feel bad cuz "maybe I wasn't the bully, but I could have tried to do smth," as doing nothing is an indirect way to accept bullying, there's a big difference between being conscious that who you are in part depends on things that simply aren't in your control. Uh, yeah. That's why I said we should use our time trying to change something instead of playing "whose fault was it?" on the internet. Nobody said that we should not be conscious about our own existence. Is it even possible to be unconscious about it? And yes the world is still a jungle. The only difference is that the "loser" gets to whine on the internet instead of being killed. That's how all life in existence is. Nobody wants to get in a position where it is less comfy than before. If you can't fit in, you create your own place in it and if you can't do that, you die out. Natural selection. Nobody can say that it isn't a part of modern society. Saying that's wrong is like saying "No, it's not raining. My hair is not wet and I won't catch a cold." when in some heavy rainfall. Some things can't be changed by human virtue alone. 8 minutes ago, Jun Inoue said: then do not even try to say that you are not racist by passivity or acceptance, as I mentioned in my first comment, because your statement is you literally announcing that since you didn't do anything actively unfair, you refuse to accept any responsibility for past actions, even if they are what brought you an advantage, and a disadvantage to others. You want to tell a german about "refusing to accept responsibility for past actions"? We still pay for the crimes of some austrian madman. Being passive about something you can't change and accepting it are two different things. And having an advantage = others having disadvantages is kinda cute. How do you define "advantage" and "disadvantage" and how is it possible for everyone to have the same definition? 21 minutes ago, Jun Inoue said: Also, your last statement is plain sad. Now you are shifting the topic and blame, and saying that I should be doing more to fix the world. This, immediately after saying that you reject even the slightest of responsibilities and refuse to do anything for anyone that's not yourself. Good job, you firmly plant yourself as part of the problem, and are proud of it. "You could blame people, but it doesn't fix things, so I'll do absolutely nothing and argue YOU should be doing stuff." Flagrant logic there. Especially the swap of responsibility and conscience for blame and crying. As mature as your moral standard. You seem to know your way around this area more than me. And my statement was never directed at you but at humanity as a whole. the whole second half was. Sorry if you felt adressed. Quote
Darklord Rooke Posted November 14, 2016 Posted November 14, 2016 7 minutes ago, bigfatround0 said: Politic threads always devolve into users attacking each other. Personally I don't think there's anything wrong with attacking other people. It's just a part of the internet culture. Internet culture is an oxymoron though. Anyway, the Fuwanovel forums was built to be a respectful place where people didn't have to deal with unwanted abuse. Because of this, rule number 1 on the Fuwanovel Rules thread (found in the Introduction forums) is 'no insulting other users'. Personal attacks are included. bigfatround0 1 Quote
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