I tired to help you with errors to :P/>/> but I fell asleep doing so....
Anyways I agree with your points kagaya. The forums i've been on arn't as friendly as you would see them here. But that also differs on the size of the community.
Fuwanovel to me is a site which allows people with the same love for VN's, either to talk about them or to recommend VN's they love too. And also this website is 'dedicated to sharing fan translated visual novels' which brings more and more people due to wanting and sharing what their interested in.
The 'people' who are either staff or admin are also friendly and would always help someone in need, it could be fixing a problem or helping them become comfordent (active) with the use of positivity.
The members are just as great in every way with there helpfulness and their responses are also enjoyable to read
The IRC is a bonus because you can interact with people on the forums that you wouldn't do if there wasn't one.
I don't know if its just my selfishness but, I wouldn't want this community to become to big. Because for example MAL was a website for anime/manga and that became big and look at that, their are people hating on each other for unnecessary reasons. And hate is never a good thing.