I can't say that reading VNs with a male protagonist creep me out, but I also don't tend to insert myself into the role of the main character, so it's more like reading a romance novel, almost. Same goes for yuri.
I don't necessarily mind H scenes, but it really depends on how they're used. I feel like many VNs (*cough*Grisaia*cough*) could greatly benefit from either cutting back on or completely removing the H content, but at the same time, I won't hold it against something like Katawa Shoujo, Swan Song, or Saya, because it's integral to the story and I feel like it would be a worse experience without them.