Hello everyone, I'll be using the nickname Sieg to share some thoughts of mine with you folks and listen to what you have to say from here on out on in this forum. Firstly, I'd like to say that I have never posted on forums before. I've read many as a fellow internet dweller, but never quite got into writing back and stuff. That is, simply put, due to not caring enough to discuss with other people about minor things that, to me at least, didn't really matter (like online games or manga forums). Of course, that is just my personal opinion and I'm not criticising people who do care about it. Nevertheless, what I do care about are Visual Novels, and I mean it. I might not be the greatest VN otaku that there is out there, nor do I know if by the VN culture standards I have played many or few titles, but what I do know is that I want other people to see what I saw and, if they can, enjoy VNs as much as I do. That said, when I decided to write this, it was heavily influenced on the fact that Fuwanovel is, basically, a site that longs to "make visual novels popular in the west".
I found Fuwanovel by chance while I was searching Little Busters, shortly after the anime got announced on Sankaku Complex. Seeing how popular it was, I decided to give it a shot, and while browsing randomly I stumbled upon something like: "people are generally against playing VNs, but if you give it to them in a plate, they'd be more willing to try". How true is that? A lot, and Fuwanovel really made my life a lot easier in that regard.
Enough about me, what I can do for our fellow otaku who still have friends is introduce you guys to what I like to call the "Trading System". I won't act like it's the greatest finding ever, but it's worth considering. For starters, it is only natural wanting to share your hobbies with your friends, right? Not only hobbies, but a simple movie you watch and find interesting enough is plenty of reason for you to start persuading your friends into watching it and the like. In doing so, you are putting at stake the "reputation" of your tastes, the responsibility of having your word put on stake. There are two possibilities from here:
1. The movie/series/game was acknowledged as fine, good or great by your friend and the "trust" of the trading relationship is maintained.
2. The other party has not enjoyed your suggestion as you thought he/she would. Thus, the "trust" of the trading relationship is somewhat or completely shaken.
Now that's common sense, but I had to point it out for the sake of the following. If you have a relationship reasonable enough to be accounted as a friend that you can trust to some extent, you can bargain with that person in a fair "trade" of sorts. Say, you commit yourself into watching/reading whatever the other party recommends you to, and in return, you recommend something back, like a VN. There are two basic ways of doing so:
1. Start watching/reading whatever your friend suggested and then make your own recommendation. In doing so, said friend will feel in more of a obligation to take your part of the deal, like a verbal contract of sorts. In the event of refusal, you can aways threaten him/her with the abandon of his initial suggestion, thus breaking the deal.
2. By clarifying at the start of the exchange terms like, lenght, genre and the like. Like this, you don't get to "waste" your time in the event of an absolute failure of the first method, but due to the prejudice of anime, VN and the like it is less likely to work on total "riajuus"
Sure, this ain't great news on persuading people and such, but fact is, if you want people to share your point of view, or at least try to do so, you've got to do the same. The trade can have many terms, clausules, rules or whatever, the important thing is getting them started, and maybe you yourself will get into something else as well. Hell, it could even be something completely unrelated like sports, but at the same time something among the lines of "sure, I'll play, but you gotta play something too".
The point I brought on this topic was to spread and expand the VN/otaku culture alike in a closer circle of friends, but the simple blackmailing and contractual-like deals are of course effective in many other approaches. Thing is: even if I am being obvious or redundant, if this post gets even 1 more person to share the joy that are VN with this ever-growing community, then I'd say it was plenty useful. In the end, it's all about trying without fear. That does not mean to be reckless, bit persisten instead. I can say that this works since I got many of my friends into experimenting, and many more will follow.
PS: sorry for any bad english