First things first: Thanks a ton for your support on my blog. I really appreciate it : ). Having people support you in the Japanese Quest is really important, and I appreciate it : )
Okay! So... looks like you hit "the wall" with Kanji, huh? If you remember my original concerns, I'm going to echo a few sentiments:
It sounds like you're trying to eat the whole elephant at once, instead of bite-by-biteIt sounds like you're trying to regulate yourself and keep a healthy mindIt sounds like you're prioritizing
Point #2 -- is REALLY important: when I was living in Russia, trying to learn Russian via firehose instead of a glass at a time, I was NOT trying to regulate myself and keep a healthy mind : ). Good job on that. You've realized that you can't do it all, and you're prioritizing.
Point #1/3 -- Going along with that, while you're prioritizing, you AREN'T prioritizing the Kanji. That's totally fine: people have learned Japanese 1000 different ways. It looks like you've even found some support for the path you're building for yourself. I hope you'll keep us up to date, and let us know how we can help. I've chosen to start with (and focus exclusively on) the Kanji until I have the joyo down. I do this because trying to drink the entire language at once is too much for me. I still encourage you to NOT stop the Kanji (scale back to 10 a day), because with almost no effort (10 mins + reviews) you'll be done in a few months.
Point #3 -- Again, prioritizing is good, but only so long as you realize what you're prioritizing, and are doing so consciously. Also, just as key, it's important to watch what you AREN'T prioritizing.